I hate seeing my friends upset, especially when it seems so easily fixable. Well on the surface its easy but I guess that's only if you ignore all hurt feelings and bad words spoken, which is not so straightforward. But through whatever insecurity you have, whatever bitterness, hurting people becomes a way of coping. I feel sorry for people that cope in this way. Why go out of your way to cause hatred and upset people, especially a friend who cares so much about you and who speaks with such pained sincerity about your worth to him. I hope this gets fixed, lifes to short to make enemies out of your friends.